22 Dec 2009
Random Thoughts: Avoiding people
Having to avoid someone you like is bad. What's worse? Them not even recognising or caring that you avoid them.
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I don’t write to advocate my ideas; I write to outgrow them.
A blog post is like a picture. It shows what the author thought at the time of writing that post. Similar to how a picture shows how a person looked at the time of taking that picture.
I am not a perfect person today. Far from it. But I am better today than what I was a few years ago. If I sound like an awful person in one post, that doesn’t necessarily mean I am an awful person in every aspect. Let us not judge anyone based on just one thing that they have said/written/done.
Writing this blog has helped me become a better person. Some of my old posts make me cringe. But what matters is that I am improving over time.
ஒரு கவிதை ஞாபகத்திற்கு வந்தது.
ReplyDeleteகார்த்திக் முருகன் எழுதியது என நினைக்கிறேன்.
நீங்கள் சொல்பவருக்கு நேரெதிராக உள்ளவர் சொல்லியிருக்கும் வாக்கியங்களாக தெரிகின்றன.
நினைப்பு
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என்னைத் தவிர்த்துப் போகும்
உங்களிடம்
காரண காரியங்கள் கேட்டுத்
தொடர்ந்திட மாட்டேன்
ஆனால்
என்னையே தொடர்ந்து கொண்டிருக்கும்
எனைத் தவிர்த்து விட வேண்டுமென்ற
உங்கள் நினைப்பு
Love the poem. Problem with avoiding people to "repair" a relationship is that most of the times it results in a deadlock where each person is waiting for the other person to do something. After writing this post, I think I am able to see the problem in a different light.
ReplyDeleteYeh! true.
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